He’s scum. If he doesn’t respect you while you guys are arguing then he’s not worthy of your time. A man who loves you can be extremely angry at you but still respect you and not try to do you any harm, physically or emotionally. Leave it alone.
He’s a keeper, that is a special skill. I don’t think I could be arguing at the same time as using my digits that way. Serious multitasking. Didn’t you think it would be better to stop arguing and get involved too? Xp