My boyfriend of almost two years fingered a girl while we were fighting a couple months ago. I didn’t know until yesterday and he has recently been doing really good and we’ve been amazing but no I can’t let go of what he did. I want to, I love him but I just don’t know if going back to him would be the right thing for me. Even though it’s hard to picture myself without him. Do you think I should keep trying or just leave it alone?

sonoanthony:

He’s scum. If he doesn’t respect you while you guys are arguing then he’s not worthy of your time. A man who loves you can be extremely angry at you but still respect you and not try to do you any harm, physically or emotionally. Leave it alone. 

He’s a keeper, that is a special skill. I don’t think I could be arguing at the same time as using my digits that way. Serious multitasking. Didn’t you think it would be better to stop arguing and get involved too? Xp