Well, I think it’s difficult for people to tell their partners they don’t like the taste of going down on them. It probably would upset her if you were to tell her. There are theories that foods we eat effect our taste. Fruits produce sweeter tastes and red meat and dairy produce less appetizing tastes in some people. Instead of criticizing her taste first off, maybe suggest she try eating more fruits to see if she tastes sweeter after. If she does get upset, comfort her and let her know it’s not her fault or that there’s anything wrong with her—just that you’re curious to try it to see if the taste is any better. However, if you’ve been going years I’m assuming the taste isn’t unbearable, and you may want to just power through it for her sake if she’s sensitive. Keep in mind that you probably don’t taste all that amazing to her all the time—it’s a compromise couples make sometimes for mutual pleasure.
On the shaving part—if she’s “very opposed” to shaving, I suggest you not push that issue. You can say that her hair makes it difficult for you to give it your all, but I’d let her choose between shaving and potentially having better oral sex. Don’t force her to change her body if she doesn’t want to.
xx SF
Why are you coughing up hairballs? Sounds like you mightn’t be doin it right if so?
