me when i become a parent
she still looks hella awkward in that pic
this is kind of really awful though because once this little girl gets old enough to go to school and starts making friends and noticing that their parents are around all the time, she’s not going to understand why her mommy goes away all the time. i would understand the concept of taking a break from your kid when they’re old enough to understand that it’s just that, but this kid is fucking four. fuck, the more I see of this woman the more i absolutely cannot stand her.
“we have our own lives” SHES FUCKING 4 BE A MOTHER
This pisses me off so much.
Like she made the decision to be a mother. How can you do that to your own fucking child? I don’t understand people.Exactly!
and this kids… is why you don’t have children at such a young age. You will feel robbed of your teenage years to go hanging out with your friends… your 20’s are meant to be spent partying and enjoying life. Don’t have kids if you’re not responsible.
Lots of judgement and not a lot of help. It is better to recognise the fact if you are not able to be a good parent and let more competent people do it who will enjoy it more and have better results. Not all families look the same. If the kid is being cared for and the biological mom is still around to connect now and then… then what more can you ask for?
I am assuming the best here. A 4 year old needs a primary attachment person to stay with them for a long time, not come and go. So I’m assuming Farrah is not that primary parent, that someone else is doing that role, such as the child’s father or grandparent. If not then Farrah needs to make sure there is someone commited to the job doing it for the long term because she isn’t doing it with that attitude.